Hello Folks!
Long time no see...
Well I don't have to mention that I have been a busy girl the last few months.
Between my relationship with Tank, my relationship with the monster and vi, and my living situation....I'm all over the place.
Let's start with Tank.
Things are progressing nicely. We have been together almost 9 months and are officially moving in together. We will be moving to Woburn! House warming party details will be sent to my nearest and dearest.
Now to every one's favorite couple
The reason I am moving is because of issues between the Monster, Vi, and Tank.
Both parents have had a huge tree branch stuck up their asses since they first realized I was dating Tank. Apparently their major issue was that I didn't discuss this with them. Yea...really. So I'm supposed to get their approval for whom I date? LMAO....OH I DO NOT THINK SO.
So the stress and fighting continued through the months until we arrive to a fateful night in April. The monster calls me upstairs and proceeds to argue with me and get in my face about how I revolve my life around the men I date. I do? Really? OK so that opens up a Pandora's box of bullshit I had stored away just for this perfect time. I bring up how she never went to jello's families house during the holidays because the Vi doesn't like to go out and only wants to have dinner that the monster has cooked.
I mention how she refused to have friends because she has admitted that the Vi spoils everything and makes people uncomfortable. I bring up how she refuses to go out during at night, even with me, because she has to be home to make the Vi dinner. It went on and on.
She never heard me. She continued on her rant....stating how that in order to be a strong woman I need money behind me...etc, etc.
Well, long story short, Tank heard everything. Even the bad mouthing she did about him.
He wanted to get involved, but out of respect for me he did not.
She found out he over heard and was pissed off. She asked him to come over that following Friday to "work things out".
Friday.
Tank showed up. Sat at their table. Monster says this conversation will only take 10 minutes max.
Monster: "I want you to admit you are leeching off my daughter."
Yea. Way to start a conversation.
The argument progresses to an all out war. Monster trying to get financial information from him, Tank telling her it's none of her business, Vi threatening to throw him off the porch, and the one sentence that rocks the cave "Yea? You and what army?"
Oh Tank....
The argument ends...Monster tells Tank to go downstairs.
The next day, Tank goes over to clear the air. They sit down and by the end of it they are laughing and are back to normal.
I get home and head up for my normal, all be it pain in the ass, night with Monster. She informs me that Tank had started swearing at them the night of the fight. He was out of control. Jekyll and Hyde. You have no idea who he is, but he showed me exactly who he is.
Dear god I should get some kind of award or reward for how calm I stayed. Stone faced doesn't even begin to explain. I said to her that I'm sure everyone was swearing. Well, that was it. She believes I took his side with that one comment. Take a side? I wasn't even there to know the truth...but holy shit in her mind that doesn't matter. "We are your Parents!"
Yea? Well I'm your daughter and your treat me like a 5 year old living in a mental home with no grounds pass or medication to pass the time.
The monster then requested to go downstairs. We went. It's now me, her, and Tank. The monster looked at me and said "I want you to admit this whole issue we have with Tank is because of you."
Huh? What? Did I hear her correctly?
My fault? I'm sorry but the last time I checked I wasn't the bat-shit crazy one.
Bring on another battle. This one last about 2 hours. At the end I was so exhausted I just said "Fine, it's alllllll my fault. I did eeeeeeverything wrong."
"You mean that?" Monster said
"Yea. Sure."
"OK, Tank you can move in tonight."
She stood up and walked back upstairs.
What in the hell just happened?
So everything was fine after that. 2 weeks later the folks went away to Reno. They come back a week later and surprise surprise the Monster is acting cold, distant, and very strange.
Comes to find out she says she is now afraid of Tank.
She claims that during the argument he threatened them with saying You and what army.
In the land that I am from, that's not a threat, it's a wise ass comment.
She then proceeds to give me the option of having him only be allowed to be in the house when I'm home. So basically what we were doing before he moved in. I said no.
That option then became a demand. We moved to square 1 yet again.
So, this has been my life over the past 9 months or so. Tank and I decided to move back to his old apartment. Monster was all over me at first. Saying how he is going to ruin my life just like the Vi ruined hers, and I don't really know him like she does cus he showed his true self to her that night, etc.
Now she believes this is the best thing. That everything happened the way it was supposed to and this will be good for me. I'll be free and have the freedom I should have at my age.
Could someone please force this bitch to take meds?
